Abu Muhammad al-Looweesi'aani is the founder of Insight Audio Recordings. He is trying to learn Arabic and get closer to the Qur'aan by the help of Allah, The Irresistible.
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Saying, “I love you” to someone you really love can be very dangerous when it is your wife or husband. “I love you.” It’s just 3 words. But each word is loaded with meaning bringing out emotions that can lead to more pain than the announcer intended.
A marriage is a relationship that can sum up to success or feelings of total failure. Our report card of spousal performance is always on the line with our wife or husband. Marriage over time, for some, can simply equal to years and years of failures and promises not kept. Of sad longings and an uncertain future.
It can bring about mountains of stress the trauma of which makes the sufferer truly believe he or she would have been better off single, drowning alone in a lake of water. Overtime some believe that death is possibly better than the marriage they are in. “The more I try to make things better the worse it seems to become!”, we might say.
Overtime the thrill is gone and smiles fade. Excitement is replaced by anxiety of the moment. We may just go through the motions hoping that our “staged performance” went unnoticed by our spouse. “If I can just get through this day.”, we think.
“Here we go again, another !!!#!$#FY$ $^**!!!!”, we say to ourselves as our ears quickly turn off to the sounds of whatever he or she is saying. “What? Sorry what did you say?”, said the man. “I’m sorry did you expect something else?”, said the woman.
And so it goes. “The Dance To Marriage’s Death” quickens its pace. You may say, “But nothing is right!” This may be so. Or you may say, “It’s always the same ‘ol thing with him/her!” And this is also possible.
Indeed all praise and thanks are due to Allah, The God of all of the prophets and may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon His final prophet and messenger Muhammad, his family, companions and those who follow them until the last day.
As Muslims we attach ourselves to the book of Allah and the sunnah of His messenger without reservation by the leave of Allah. That is our source of refuge and salvation and there is NOTHING equal to them. We ask Allah to make us sincere to Him publicly and privately.
I stumbled upon this video and watched it. In my travels I clearly see what this Rabbi, may Allah guide him to the truth, Islam, is saying. There is a serious moral decline taking place with the Christians.
It wasn’t just two or longer years ago I heard my Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Rslan, may Allah preserver him and his family, say the same things to his people about Democracy. He was discouraging and warning his people that they should NOT revolt against President, at that time, Mubaarak. He warned them of the dire, catastrophic results that would come about trying to change the decision of Allah by revolting against their ruler.
Well, they did. They revolted. They did not follow the “Inheritors of the Prophets and Messengers”. And the rest, they say, is history and it is Allah’s refuge and help we seek. For those of us who were in the village at the time of the first revolt we are now living to see everything our Sheikh warned about come to past by the decree of Allah.
But as this Rabbi testifies to, Islam, The Religion of Allah, as a religion carries its followers and suffices them through times likes these. Only Islam has the cure and offers the perfect end.
It is the only religion that gives Allah His rights to be worshiped. And I bear witness that Allah had a Rabbi testify to the same. All praises and thanks are due to Allah, The Tremendous, The Exalted and may peace and blessings of Allah be upon His final messenger Muhammad son of Abdillah.
This is a subject ignored by many of us and only focused upon by a few of us. “Happiness” is very important and if you are a Muslim father and husband it is very important to raise and nurture your family upon it. Islam has all that is required for one to gain happiness wether he or she is rich or poor. Yet without beneficial knowledge many Muslims take harmful paths to find it. And many use “sadness” as a weapon assisting the Shaytaan against themselves and others and we seek refuge in Allah from this evil way.
Our children need it as it is essential for their coming years especially when life becomes hardest. May Allah bless and preserve our Sheikh Saalih al-Fawzaan.
If you live in the West take advantage of it, struggle to get an education and travel abroad to benefit others like in this video. People will appreciate you for your knowledge. You will be rewarded if Allah wills. Spend your time wisely, get an education.